On the road, we had VERY little interaction with service providers or companies on a regular basis. We were not committed to any business other than our insurance agents (and good old Uncle Sam come tax time). We did pay $30 a month for our basic phone/text plan but that was coordinated through my mother's plan.
Being in Minnesota for the last year, our time often gets soaked up by required service providers of all kinds:
As a company or person providing services to others, it is critical to reach a balance of effective service along with profit. What that service looks like has varied SIGNIFICANTLY from company to company.
Our Internet Provider overpromised and underdelivered; it took MANY calls to correct their mistake.
Our Auto Dealer exceeded our expectations in handling our issue after I was stranded in a vehicle we bought... two hours away from home... when I was 8 months pregnant... on the hottest day in summer.
The seller's realtor dealt poorly with a plumbing issue after closing; requesting Nate to be home when he was supposed to be at work. It was the seller's delay in fixing a problem they should have fixed before closing.
A retail manager showed unexpected compassion when one of their products didn't meet my expectations.
I imagine a few of your own situations are coming to mind.
There are differences in the tone of voice, the response time, the exaggeration of promises. When I think about it, these are all people trying to get a job done; probably to get a paycheck to bring home to the place they call home. Some jobs are ridiculously tough and I'm well aware of what it's like to work in a call center (incoming and outgoing). Yet still, we have a choice of how we respond to others. On both sides. Customer. Provider.
Choose respect, honesty, and efficiency.
I think you'll both win.
And for goodness sake, take an extra moment to highlight those who have taken good care of you!